This is me and I look as tired as I felt (and it ain't the run up all those stairs, I had just done).
I always felt so tired and confused when I was in a relationship:
Even when we were first dating:
Should I sleep with them now?
Should I hold out even though I was into them? I don't want to come across like a prude.
Are we exclusive or are they dating other people? How do I ask without coming across crazy?
I had tried to do it myself:
Talking to friends for hours on end about the same shit
Reading books that would help me tap into my spirit guides or how men love bitches
Throwing myself into working more hours or losing interest altogether in dating.
Are you thinking you don’t want to start over while believing something’s got to change?
You flirted/slept with them because it felt good to know they thought you were hot.
Thought you hadn't heard from them because you said or did something, only to find out they were just busy, but were they?
Flirted with the one who was already taken.
Tired of not being chosen
Tired of feeling like something is wrong with you.
Tired of changing what you say, wear or eat to appear more attractive
Tired of being tired
When I stopped trying to find the one, asked for help and practice new thoughts and beliefs about myself... I found myself. Changing my thoughts & actions gave me the permission to walk through my confusion with clarity.
I stopped waiting to be chosen and chose me.
I felt the feelings of what it’d feel like to be in love, how the obsession with being in love impacted me
Acknowledged the fear I didn’t want to get hurt again.
I became healthier and happier in all aspects of my life.
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